One of my favorite topics to write about is my family. Starting today, I’m going to make it a point to write more of my stories about them; I’ll title those entries “Family Ruminations.” I’d love to hear your thoughts and to get a conversation going about your own families!

Wanderlust is an inherited gene in the Nankani clan. My grandfather left Sindh (now part of Pakistan) in the late 1930s in search of his personal destiny and let the ocean waves and economic winds carry him through central Asia into the Middle East forward onto the African continent.
He finally ended up in West Africa, placing his roots down in Ghana where he opened a chain of movie theatres and imported movies from India and China for a rural audience. From Ghana, he explored the many cut-out kingdoms and new countries of West Africa, forging links with locals and other Indian expats and expanding his business over the years.
During the last years of his life, however, he wanted to go back to his source. He returned to India with my grandmother and made plans to live out his final moments in an apartment overlooking a green courtyard, where cuckoo birds crooned out daily tunes and where the sunrise and sunset could be seen from eastern and western balconies.
My grandmother, who had traveled alone to join my grandfather, Dada as we called him, was happy to be back in India. But, when Dada got jaundice and passed away, she could not stay in one place. She picked up her bags and returned to Ghana with her youngest and her eldest sons. With six children spread out all over the world – Ghana, Morocco, the United States – she hoisted her sail and began traveling from one home to the other, spending three months with each child. Every six months, she began to return to India to recharge her batteries in the presence of her guru.
I’ve often wondered why she didn’t just pick one place to live, and tell her children to visit her there, the way my maternal grandmother, Meme, has done. Meme has not left India since 1988. In contrast, Nani, my father’s mother, is on a plane every few months.
It must be the wanderlust. Nani loves to travel on airplanes in business class. She enjoys staying in hotels and eating in restaurants. Although she tries to convince herself that she must be a puritan at her age, she is not. Sometimes she pretends that she doesn’t really need to go anywhere and that she would be content to live in India but then, before we know it, she tells us that she must leave because she needs to have some dental work done in Morocco – because that is where her dentist is located. And, when she gets to Morocco, she tells us that she needs to have her eyes checked in India – because that is where her optometrist is located!
I always tease her about it, but I’m growing to understand her more and more. We Nankanis need frequent and regular changes of scenery, of air, of land, and of water. We thrive on change and relish those moments of departure and arrival. We delight in looking at the many stamps on our passports and in gazing at maps and pinpointing all the places upon which we have set foot.
My father was the same way. His old suit bag illustrated his wandering spirit perfectly. Black leather, it was stamped with stickers from all the airlines on which he has flown. Alitalia. Green and white. Air India. Red and white. Ethiopian Airlines. Red, green, yellow. Ghana Airways. Red, green, yellow. Singapore Airlines. Mustard yellow silhouette. British Airways. Red and blue. The list (and colors) can go on and on.
The stickers are peeling; they stick to and stain my hands. But I still love looking at the suit bag because it reminds me of all the places to which Papa traveled. Each of the stickers has its own story.
Papa traveled for business most of the time. But, sometimes I think that really, he made his business make him travel. If he had wanted, he could have started a company that allowed him to stay in one place. He could have been content with a chain of retail shops that allowed him to purchase goods from local vendors in Ghana. But, no, he chose instead to expand his company into an international import-export company, sourcing out vendors in the Far East. Over the years, he visited Korea, Japan, Thailand, Malaysia, Hong Kong, China, Taiwan, the Phillipines … more places than I can count on my fingers.
Papa told the best stories about his travels. One of these days, I should try to write them down. Perhaps in the first person as I recall them. …